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| Intuitively Metaphysical Insights & Guidance (IMIG) Daily Question & Answer Column
When Is the Money Coming So I Can Do What I Want?
How and when will financial prosperity come to me, so that I can leave my current "job", and move forward with my book, my Life Coaching, and my lecturing? Signed, Living My Life Purpose
Ah, the questions that most of us want to have answered are ‘how and when’. Have you ever felt that by asking the ‘how and when’ this is going to happen that you are creating some frustration and anxiety for yourself? I sense that financial prosperity will come to you when you allow yourself to fully walk in faith, trust in the gifts within you, and when you’ve shifted from asking ‘when’ to deciding it’s time. Your passion is a powerful gift and reliable guidance tool, so let it guide you to where you really want to be and to what you really want to be doing. Focus on doing and being a Writer, Life Coach, and Teacher and allow your love for helping people guide and inspire you on your journey. I sense that you have a gift for helping people heal from old wounds and painful experiences, so the more you cultivate your unique style and are of service to others’, the sooner you will be walking your destined path. This process doesn’t have to take a long time, so the more faith you have, the bigger your passion, and more you take guided action, the sooner you’ll be doing what you love!
Empathic Feeler I’m a very sensitive person so I cry when I’m very joyous, sad, and mad. So how do I teach my self not to do this in front of managers as this can be seen as a sign of weakness? Signed, Seeking Strength
Did you know that sensitivity is a sign of being an empathic and intuitive? Haven’t you ever wondered why you feel so overwhelmed at certain times and just can’t seem to shake it? I sense that sometimes when you’re experiencing heightened emotions, you are also experiencing the feelings of many others whether these individuals are in close physical proximity to you or not. In order to get a feel for what I am suggesting, grab a journal and start jogging down the times when your emotions seem to fluctuate or are really intense; noting where you are, who you’re with, and what you’re doing in that moment. Also write down what is going on in your environment at the time (babies crying in the background, upset colleagues, unbridled excitement at a sporting event, etc) because all of the who’s, what’s, where’s, and when’s leave great clues. This will help you recognize what is going on and then you can release the unwanted feelings through meditation, grounding yourself and visualization exercises.
Recognizing Intuitions
How does intuition come to us and how do we know it is our intuition as opposed to our conscious mind or just a random thought? Can I become psychic or see angels if I wanted to? Psychic Curious
Dear Psychic Curious, intuition is an innate, powerful guidance tool that serves to help you navigate through life with natural, effortless ease, so you absolutely have the power within you to become psychic and see angels.
Intuition is a form of guidance that unique, consistent, always has your highest and best good at heart, and tends to ‘pop out’ at you. In order to tap into your intuition, you must have faith and trust that what you’re experiencing is genuine. Intuitions are received through all of your senses, so give credit to sounds, visions, tastes, and other senses that seem out of place, come from out of nowhere and have a unique energy to them. Intuitions also come through gut reactions, hunches and knowings (the gaining and knowing of information without gathering that information from a source outside of yourself). The question is, what’s unusual? Did you really hear that? Feel that? See that? The answer is YES! When you use logical and rationale thinking to explain unusual situations, you are doubting your intuitive, psychic experiences, which blocks your intuition. With faith, time, and experience, your psychic abilities will increase and you’ll be able to see angels. Selling My Home
Should I look into selling my home now or should I sell it next year? Growing Home
Dear Growing Home, selling your home is such a personal experience, so allow yourself to be excited about the prospect of moving into a new place before deciding whether or not to sell your home. What feels like home to you? What kind of home do you want to live in? What kind of environment do you want to live in? The outcomes from intuitive decisions are significantly different than the outcomes from logical decisions, so when you are able to easily answer the above questions, you’ll have a sense of when to sell your home.
For several years I wanted to move out of Albuquerque, New Mexico, but I didn’t know where to go until I started getting an intuitive calling to move to the Phoenix, Arizona. This intuitive nudge began sometime in 2006 when I all of the sudden was intuitively drawn to start attending an annual spiritual conference in the area. Before I knew it, I was drawn to other spiritual hot spots in the area, was making connections with people and some of my friends moved to Phoenix. Simultaneously, every time I visited Phoenix, I felt an intense energetic connection with the area and I experienced several profound synchronicities guiding me to move there. When I made the move in the fall of 2008, amazing experiences and opportunities began opening up to me. If you allow yourself to be guided in a similar manner, you’ll find yourself living in a home that brings you great joy. Allow yourself to make intuitive decisions in other areas of your life and keep a journal of all the decisions you make, the type (intuitive or logical) and write down the outcome: this will help you see the power of intuitive decisions.
What Do Guys Want?
Why do so many of the books out there right now encourage women to hold back, let the guy chase you, not be too available and all that stuff? I get it to a point, but if I’m a strong woman and I know what I want, shouldn't I put it out there? Or does that really freak guys out too much? Guess it depends on the guy? Signed Guy Lover
Hi Guy lover, my intuitive sense is that you are seeking to connect deeply with a man in a very romantic, charming, and loving way. Remember that love is all about honesty, compassion, understanding and emotional connection, not emotional games, so trust yourself and your intuitive senses and feelings.
There is no one-size-fits-all relationship manual because each relationship situation is unique and deserves to be treated that way. One man may wish to have you chase after him and play enticing games with him; another may want the thrill of chasing after you, thus prolonging the intensity of a first kiss and touch; and while another may want to take things slowly. Your intuition always knows what’s best for any given situation: it’s just a matter of taping into it and heeding its guidance. So the question to ask yourself is, “what feels right”? When you find yourself engaged in endless thoughts about how you should handle a specific situation, release all your thoughts so you can get an intuitive sense for what feels right. If you’re engaged in feel-good fantasies about how you can entice a specific man and it has a high-energy to it, then trust what feels good and just wait for the right timing to make your move. When you pick up the phone and you get an intuitively bad feeling, that’s your intuition guiding you not to act in the moment. In order to make the right moves, just listen to and follow your own intuitive guidance system; it doesn’t matter what others think you should or shouldn’t do. Love is meant to be fun, exciting, and pleasurable! Seeking My Soulmate
I was in what I think was my best relationship ever, but we’ve broken up and it’s been difficult for me to move on. I’d like to meet my soulmate, but I’m not sure if I’m meant to be with someone or if I am meant to be alone during this lifetime. Signed, Soulmate Seeker
Dear Soulmate Seeker, I sense that your desire for a dynamic, connected soulmate relationship is proof that there is someone out there looking for you too. Whenever you get to the place of wondering whether or not you are meant to be with someone in this lifetime, just release the thought and recognize it for what it is ...just a thought. Feelings are part of your guidance system and are therefore, much more powerful than your thoughts. Remember that any chaotic, scattered thoughts that make you feel bad stem from the ego; and the ego is the fear-based part of us that keeps us from our truth. Love is always an option; you just have to allow it.
Having Premonitions & Chatting With Angels
I am growing extremely fast spiritually, I’m beginning to have premonitions and I’m communicating with angels. What can I do to develop my gifts? Signed, Eager Spirit
Dear Eager Spirit, I sense that because these experiences are so new to you, you are sometimes questioning and justifying these extraordinary spiritual experiences. Your feelings guide you about what is real, true, and in your best interest, so when you trust what you’re feeling and experiencing, you are simultaneously developing your gifts. Be careful not to explain away your experiences in some ‘logical’ way because the doubt decreases your ability to recognize spiritual experiences. Openness, positive feelings, and trust are breeding grounds for spiritual experiences. For even more of a spiritual boost, grab a few journals and jot down what you see, feel, hear, sense, or smell that seems to be extraordinary, different or unusual; this will help you see what’s happening over time. It’s also helpful to ‘test’ your abilities in situations where you can get automatic confirmation, such as reading a person’s energy.
Fearing for My Boys & My Custody Battle
Will my boys’ father clean up his life and treat the boys with respect? I experience a lot of fear and anxiety when I think about my boys’ being alone with their father; I also fear for their health and safety. I am also embroiled in a child custody battle with their father and I fear that the judge will give the father overnight visits with the boys. Signed, Craving Peace
Dear Craving Peace, take a few moments to relax, take several deep breaths and bring yourself into the now and an awareness of unlimited possibilities. Your focus on fear is popping out at me, so I am going to tell you about the two different types of fear. Ego-based fears are thought forms that fester in your mind and keep you from seeing possibilities, solutions, and truth. This type of fear keeps you stuck, creates stories in your mind, is inconsistent, causes confusion and seems to sometimes never-end: it can also keep you from moving forward in your life and expressing yourself. Intuitive fear is a completely different experience. Fear stemming from your intuition is born in the moment, serves its purpose and then leaves your experience immediately. Intuitive fear’s sole purpose is to guide and protect.
With all that being said, you seem to be experiencing an ego-based fear that I sense is disguising the possibilities and potentials with your boys’ father. Instead of asking, 'is my boys’ father going to clean up his life and treat the boys with resp'ct” what about asking 'what can I do to come from a place of love, compassion and understanding with my boys’ father'? Also, what can you do for your boys to teach them how to manage their stress and anxiety? My intuitive sense is that once you allow yourself to see things from your boys’ fathers’ perspective and you focus on what you want to experience in your life, you will find the answers that you’re seeking and you will release the fears. Remember that everything is possible in this world of creation and the first step entails you knowing this from an intuitive, experiential level. Your thoughts today create your tomorrow, so release yourself from the ‘how’ and ‘when’ and just decide what you want, focus on it, and allow the universe to orchestrate it all for you, while you act as if you already have what you want.
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